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Spouting Thomas's avatar

Thanks, this is a good read.

“The degree to which women contribute directly to the food quest in any given society seems to correlate [inversely] with the degree to which manhood is emphasized.”

I once recall an anthropologist arguing rather convincingly that there are really only two types of traditional human societies: the patriarchal ones in which -- due to a combination of technology, environment, and population density -- dedicated male labor is essential to the economic survival of most women (at least if they hope to have surviving children) and in which monogamy is the standard and paternal investment high, and those matrilocal societies in which none of those things are true. God has made his preference clear between these two systems, but in practice both of them were capable of enduring, and religious influences were secondary to economic ones.

Economically, we have transitioned from a patriarchal society to a matrilocal one, but our culture hasn't caught up yet. This is one of the reasons why we aren't reproducing ourselves. Most women really, really don't want to be single mothers (and certainly not to multiple children by multiple men) and birth control and abortion make it possible to enjoy a matrilocal sex life (i.e. with multiple uncommitted partners) while avoiding this possibility. To the degree women desire children at all it's in the context of marriage with a husband of higher status, just like his patriarchal forebears, but women's status has improved as men's status has declined so that the supply of such husbands doesn't match the demand.

I'm not sure what the future holds, but it's clear that our current set of behaviors is unsustainable and in rapid transition.

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Isaiah Berg's avatar

Incredible writing, Aaron - lots to reflect on.

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