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Mary Jo Cleaver's avatar

One needs to make the distinction between joint custody and joint placement.

Joint legal custody has been the presumption in Wisconsin for about 20 years. It means that both parents share equal decision-making authority regarding a child's major life decisions, such as healthcare, education, and religious upbringing. Joint custody can be denied only if a parent is determined to be unfit. I think a number oof states have joint legal custody laws.

But the game changer in Kentucky and the other states is the presumption not only of joint legal custody but joint placement as well.

In Wisconsin some judges in some counties also presume joint placement, but others use a standard of best interest of the child, which is much more subjective.

In any case, this is a victory for fathers and children.

I know in my family it has kept two warring parents together, though there was a time of pretty much open warfare when i feared for the emotional well-being of the child. But they have gone to counseling and I can say it is now in the child's benefit since she suffered a great deal from an earlier separation.

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Spouting Thomas's avatar

Aaron, credit for bringing in Wilcox and making sure to point out the dangers of mom's new boyfriend. An old friend of my mother's reports having been raped at a very tender age by her mom's then-boyfriend, so this danger has been top of mind for me for a long time.

And it was a classic case where her mother was a significantly worse person than her father, but mom gatekept access under the old system and she didn't get to know dad until she was an adult.

Never let the feminists off the hook. They need to admit that this is a real thing that happens.

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