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Alastair's avatar

"I’m frequently struck by how Boomers, especially from the older cohort, simply cannot understand how anyone could possibly see the world differently from them. They are honestly confused by it."

It really is an astonishing phenomena.

Last Christmas my step-dad's parents were complaining about how they didn't understand what young people were complaining about. My own family are certainly not conservative by any stretch of the imagination, but they were able to agree with the most of points I expressed - with the occasional fact check. But my step-dad's parents simply refused to accept anything that was said that was outside their worldview! Even when it was simply a brute fact and the entire rest of the room agreed.

When they said they wanted to understand, what they really meant was they wanted an explanation that fit their preconceived notions. They had absolutely zero willingness to actually hear another point of view.

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Mary Jo Cleaver's avatar

As a 73-year-old Boomer, I agree with much of this, especially the part about Boomers not being able to understand how "anyone could possibly see the world differently from them."

I would have to leave it up to someone else to determine whether I fit the stereotype; but I will say that about 40 years ago, when I was a committed liberal, I started reading columns by conservative writers and I started seeing that we were grappling with the same questions, we just had different answers. But gradually, very gradually, I started seeing things with different eyes to the point where I voted for Biden in 2020 and Trump in 2024 (the trans phenomenon was my breaking point). Also, I've mellowed and I'm not as sure of my absolute rightness as I used to be, even as I argue with my liberal Boomer friends about whether a fetus is a human being.

But I'm a little perplexed at the charge that we still are living in the Boomers' world. Would you have examples?

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