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TorqueWrench10's avatar

They’re mad at the boomers for housing prices. And immigration. And institutionalized leftism. And the sexual revolution. And toleration of crime. And young white men being progressively driven out as low caste. And 20 years of war in the desert (without decisive victory). And the economic regulations that destroyed wages. And insulted its children when they complained.

They asked for a fish and you gave them a stone.

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Craig Smith's avatar

Your advice to young men is very similar to what I tell young men struggling to get a date. I tell them that flirting/social interactions are a skill and they need to practice that skill on people they have no romantic interest in.

When you struggle in attracting the opposite sex, every interaction with a possible romantic interest carries unbearable tension. It turns every conversation into the bottom of the ninth inning of Game 7 of the World Series. And that tension is fatal to attraction.

The only way to get past that is to practice in low-stress situations where failure has no consequences. I'm not talking about leading someone on with feigned interest. Rather, can you make the cashier smile? Can you get a chuckle out of the pharmacist? Can you carry a 10 minute conversation with the custodian in your building? Can you learn what does/does not work and refine your conversational style?

Not only will this help in personal and professional development, but you will build enough confidence that if a romantic target doesn't like it, you will be sure that someone else will. And that confidence will keep you relaxed and translate into much greater success.

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